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Cause You're Amazing Just the Way You Are

Being the last day of a 10 day yoga intensive immersion I am quite frankly exhausted, physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. However, I can not help but actively reflect on all of the amazing things to which I have been introduced in the last ten days. Not only new topics, friendships, areas of study, concepts etc. but an intense array of reflections about myself, both good and maybe not so good.
Moments ago, as I was relaxing in my bubble bath with an exquisite glass of Cantena Malbec, I had a revelation. I realized just how much society actually governs what we think we want. I feel that I have begun the process of transcendence past this "worldly material good" mind-set that I seem to have been wrapped up in for far too long, but there are so many other societally based projections with which we have been ingrained from birth. I realized that my last post about manifesting your reality only holds true if you can be satisfied with where you are now. If you are not happy, you can not manifest happiness. The universe has a funny way of giving you what you need and what you want when it is not the sole thing that will make you happy. When you are already happy and content with where you currently are and embrace your reality and simply think that it will just be that much better when you realize this projected reality but accept your current state entirely with your whole being, you will just surprise yourself with what your mind can do for you. Yes, that was a crazy run-on sentence, but you are going to have to just accept it... like I said, I am exhausted and do not currently possess the mental capacity for punctuation.

You have to stay true to yourself and not put your happiness on anyone else. How can we put so much of our power into the hands of another faulty human person? The thought that "I will be happy once I find the right person with whom to have a relationship or friendship etc." is completely self destructive. You cannot create happiness with another individual lest you are happy in your own shoes without anyone else. The saying holds true that "you can't make anyone else happy if you can't make yourself happy first". So let's do it people, be happy in our own shoes!! Completely and without regard! Be grateful for all of the wonderful things in our lives for which we have been blessed and live our lives to the fullest and in positive ways. Spread the love, peace and joy and watch our lives transform before our eyes in the most amazing ways we could ever imagine or think possible.  It is possible. Namaste (the light in me honors the light in you and we are one)


  1. "If you are not happy, you cannot manifest happiness."
    It's a profound idea in it's simplicity. I think the key word here is definitely 'manifest'. The proof becomes apparent in physical aspects of daily life, i.e. the new places and friendships you said you experienced. In a way it proves that consciousness is a real thing...


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